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29-06-2025

How to wash a wedding dress: mission possible (promise!)

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Here we are. The big day is over, the emotions have subsided, the flowers are starting to wilt... and your precious wedding dress? There it is, spread out like a starfish, with suspicious stains, dust, maybe a little wine (it was red, wasn't it?). In short, it's time to restore its shine. And before you panic about ruining the dress of your life, take a deep breath. Yes, washing a wedding dress is absolutely possible. And no, you don't necessarily need an expensive dry cleaner or a degree in textile chemistry.

We guide you step by step, with a light tone, practical advice, and above all, without unnecessary jargon.

Why wash your wedding dress? (Spoiler: it's not just for storage)

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A wedding dress is more than just a piece of clothing. It's the symbol of a special day, a piece often chosen with love (and sometimes, a few tears). It's been through the ceremony, the photos, the meal, the dancing... and maybe even a couple of slides on the dance floor.

The result? It needs a good refresh. Even if it looks "fairly clean," sweat, dust, makeup, and champagne spills have certainly made their way there. Not washing it means risking those unwanted memories becoming embedded in it for good.

So, whether you plan to keep it as a treasure, sell it, or pass it on one day, it's better to give it a small textile spa.

Washing your wedding dress at home: is it a good idea?

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At first glance, it might seem like a risky move. A dress often made of delicate fabric, with lace, pearls, embroidery... It's a little scary. But the good news is: in many cases, washing it at home is entirely possible. You just need to take your time, be patient, and follow a few simple rules.

Of course, there are exceptions. If the dress is made of pure silk, if it was sewn by elves with gold thread, or if it's worth roughly the price of a used car, it's best to consult a professional. But in the vast majority of cases, you can manage it quite honorably at home.

Fabrics compatible with home washing

Before submerging your simple wedding dress in soapy water, identify the main fabric. Tulle, chiffon, organza, synthetic satin, or polyester are all good for gentle washing. These fabrics are often durable, as long as you don't scrub them like a mop.

On the other hand, be careful with silk, fragile taffeta, and precariously sewn embellishments. If you have the slightest doubt, head to a dry cleaner (and not just any dry cleaner: one that knows wedding dresses, not office suits).

Contraindications to home washing

If your dress is layered, with embroidery, sequins, or rhinestones, take the time to check that nothing is likely to come off. Water can cause damage if the decoration isn't sewn on but simply glued on. Similarly, if your dress has a built-in corset or boning, hand wash is recommended—no washing machine, even on a gentle cycle.

Basic equipment: your special washing survival kit

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You don't need professional equipment, but you still need to have a minimum of equipment. You'll be playing the role of housemaid with:

  • A clean bathtub (yes, clean, very clean),

  • A mild soap (such as Marseille soap without coloring, or baby shampoo),

  • A white terry towel (forget the colors),

  • A sturdy hanger, padded if possible,

  • Gloves (your nails and lace will thank you),

  • And above all… time (forget speed, here it’s slow cleaning).

Products to avoid

Avoid harsh detergents, bleach (no, really), and multi-purpose products. Anything that might irritate your skin can also irritate your Country Wedding Dress . Same logic. Also avoid scented fabric softeners: they can leave marks, even greasy stains.

Prepare the dress before washing

Start by inspecting every inch. Look for stains: wine, grass, makeup, sweat, cake (yes, buttercream icing leaves stains). Write them down. If possible, detach the train if it's removable, and remove any bulky petticoats. Close any zippers, buttons, or hooks to prevent snags.

Steps to Hand Wash a Wedding Dress: Yes, You Can Do It

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Let's get down to business. Are you ready? Dress spread, relaxing playlist in the background, let's get ready for a (nearly) zen moment.

Step 1: Pre-stain removal

Using a soft white cloth or a soft (clean) toothbrush, dab the stains with a mixture of warm water and mild soap. Don't scrub like you're scrubbing a pan. Pat. Rinse gently with a little clean water.

Step 2: The bath

Fill the bathtub with warm water (never hot), add a dab of mild soap, and gently submerge the dress. No harsh soaking: go slowly, layer by layer. Let it soak for about 30 minutes. You can stir the water a little, but don't scrub the dress. It hasn't hurt anything.

Step 3: Rinsing

Empty the tub, then refill it with clean water. Gently rinse the dress until the suds are gone. It may take several rinses, so be patient (and have a slightly more upbeat playlist this time).

Step 4: Drying

No wringing! Ever! Instead, lay the dress flat on a large white terry towel, gently rolling it to absorb excess water. Then, hang it on a sturdy hanger in a shaded, well-ventilated room. Avoid direct sunlight, or your dress will turn yellow (and we don't want that).

Stubborn stains: what to do when a simple soak isn't enough?

Some stains, especially on a lace wedding dress , are stubborn. You've rubbed gently, soaked patiently... and nothing. Don't worry, it's not inevitable. There are a few gentle tricks to get rid of the toughest stains, without resorting to chemical warfare products.

Red wine stain (the classic)

Immediately dab with a little sparkling water (yes, it works), then apply a light paste of baking soda and water. Let it sit for 15 minutes, then rinse gently. If the stain persists, it's best to call a professional.

Traces of makeup

Makeup, especially foundation, loves white dresses. Gently dab with a cotton pad soaked in mild soap or even alcohol-free makeup remover. Don't rub, always dab.

Grass or mud stain

Let the mud dry, brush gently, then clean with a damp cloth and a little mild soap. For grass, use very diluted white vinegar, but test on an inconspicuous area first.

Once Clean: How to Keep Your Wedding Dress Like a Treasure

Now that your long-sleeved wedding dress is clean, it would be a shame to throw it in a ball at the bottom of a closet. Proper storage is the key to keeping it looking good for a long time, without any unpleasant surprises (like a dress that turns yellow or takes on an attic smell).

Smart folding

Use acid-free tissue paper to protect the creases. Never fold the dress directly on itself: always place a layer of paper between two sections of fabric. Then place it in a storage box, away from light, moisture, and moths (they don't need a wedding dress, thank you very much).

The hanger (in the meantime)

If you can't put it away right away, hang it in a fabric cover (especially not plastic). Avoid closets that are damp, too sunny, or accessible to your climbing cat.

What if you really don't want to wash it yourself?

There's no shame in that. You gave your best during the wedding, you have every right to delegate. If you choose a dry cleaner, choose one that's experienced in handling wedding dresses. Ask for guarantees, a quote, and why not, a little before/after photo.

Some companies even offer specialized services: cleaning, repair, preservation, packaging... The height of luxury. But if your budget has already gone to the DJ and the sugared almonds, the homemade method remains a serious (and rewarding) option for washing a wedding dress .

Conclusion: Washing a wedding dress is (almost) like a fairy tale

Nothing complicated, nothing impossible, and above all... nothing stressful if you follow the right steps. Washing your wedding dress is also a way of saying thank you. Thank you for this day, these emotions, these memories – and these stains that tell a story.

Take time, breathe, and remember: even if it's no longer all white, it's still your dress. And that's unalterable.


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