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You've received a wedding invitation. Or maybe you've seen photos of the big day scrolling through Instagram, complete with hashtags, filters, and all the trimmings. And now it's your turn: you have to wish the couple a happy marriage . But how do you do it with style, sincerity, and above all... without falling into the trap of déjà vu or corny? Don't worry, we've got just the thing for you.
Let's not lie: writing a wedding congratulations note can quickly become a real headache. We want to be touching, not cheesy. Original, but not bizarre. Funny, but not inappropriate. A bit like finding the perfect country wedding dress : it's all a question of balance. And for that, you don't need a doctorate in poetry: what you need is to be sincere, warm, and a little creative.
The message you write—whether in a card, a text message, or even a speech—should, above all, reflect your feelings . There's no need to copy Shakespeare or Google quotes for hours. What the couple wants from you is a short note that comes from the heart (and that won't make you want to fall asleep after two lines).
A good congratulations message is like a good pizza: it can be personalized. So forget the “Congratulations on your union” straight out of a card generator. Think about what you're sharing with the bride and groom : a funny anecdote, a memorable memory, a private joke. That's what will make all the difference.
It all depends on the context. If you're very close to the couple, don't hesitate to inject a little humor into your message. A hint at the groom's mismatched socks or the bride's all-consuming passion for succulents is sure to score points. On the other hand, if you're a colleague or a distant cousin, it's better to keep it more sober (but still warm!).
Because sometimes we have the ideas but not the words, here are some concrete examples to inspire you. Adapt them to your style, of course.
“Congratulations to you both on this beautiful marriage! May this new adventure be filled with love, laughter, and daily happiness.”
Simple, clean, efficient. It gets the job done without overdoing it.
“So, you've officially decided to support each other for life? Hats off! We wish you a life together full of madness, travel, failed movies, and successful brunches. We love you very much.”
Light, friendly, a bit playful: ideal for friends.
“Congratulations on taking the plunge into married life! Spoiler alert: there will be laundry to fold, debates about the thermostat temperature, but also a lot of love. And maybe a dog. Or two. Cheer up!”
The right tone if you know that the bride and groom like to laugh – and especially if they have self-deprecation skills.
“Seeing you united today is a source of immense joy. You are proof that true love exists, and I wish you a life filled with tenderness, complicity, and unforgettable memories.”
There, we shed a little tear. But always without overdoing it.
Sometimes you don't just write a card. You're invited to speak at the ceremony or reception. And then it's less fun. You have to deliver. There's no question of reciting a fifth-grade poem or reading from your diary, especially when the bride, radiant in her lace wedding dress , is looking at you with emotion.
We'll tell you right away: there's no need to speak for 20 minutes . A good two to three minutes is more than enough. Prepare your speech in advance, jot down a few key ideas, but also leave room for spontaneity. Naturalness always pleases.
The secret to a successful speech is often a good story . A memorable memory with the couple, a funny situation, a beautiful proof of love that they have for each other... These concrete moments speak much more than long, vague phrases.
A speech ends well. An inspiring sentence, a well-chosen quote (yes, we can use one here), or a simple, sincere wish for the future. No need to be grandiloquent. The important thing is to end on a positive and joyful note .
These days, we only send paper cards. Even if they still have their charm (and sometimes end up framed on the fridge, next to a photo of the famous Long Sleeve Wedding Dress ). We also congratulate by text, by email, or directly in the comment section of an Insta post. So, which channel should you choose?
Yes, it requires a stamp and a little ink. But it remains the most touching formula . A well-chosen card, a well-written note, and you enter the heart (and the memory album) of the couple.
Quick, practical, but be careful not to fall into the banal. If you choose this express route, make an effort with the content . Not just “Congratulations to the newlyweds! ❤️🎉”. Add a personal touch, a joke, a kind sentence. In short, a little soul.
Instagram, Facebook, TikTok… Yes, it's all the rage. If you're commenting under a photo, avoid the "too beautiful 😍" and opt for a message that stands out: personal, funny, or moving .
You have all the cards in hand to make your congratulatory message a success. But be careful, there are a few pitfalls to avoid if you don't want to come across as a pain in the neck, like the one who comments more on the strapless wedding dress than the happiness of the bride and groom.
Humor is good. But not just any old way. Avoid heavy-handed references to marriage like "the beginning of the end" or "good luck with your married life." These are neither funny nor welcome.
Google copy-pastes are easy to spot from a mile away. If you write "All my best wishes for happiness in this new stage of your life together," without anything else... it's clean but a little sad. We want you, not something generated.
It's their day, not yours. So avoid long paragraphs about your own romances, divorces, or the fact that you too are thinking about marriage (or not). This is a message for them , not a therapy session.
Wishing them a happy wedding isn't just a message thrown into the sea like a bottle. It's also the beginning of a new chapter in your relationship with the couple. So, why not take this opportunity to show them that you'll be there after the party too?
A little text or message a few days after the wedding, to say that the ceremony was beautiful, that you loved dancing to Celine Dion or that the buffet was divine… It always makes you happy. And it shows that you don’t disappear after dessert .
Congratulating a couple also means saying, “I’m here.” Whether it’s to help them move, to celebrate their first wedding anniversary, or just to catch up on how they’re doing. Bonds are also built through small gestures, and sometimes through unexpected things you wouldn’t expect, like this one .
Wishing a couple a happy wedding is a wonderful opportunity to show your affection, humor, and humanity. Whether in a card, orally, or in a message, the key is to speak from the heart , with a hint of lightness and a pinch of good humor. No need to overdo it. Just enough for the couple to say, “Wow, this message is just like us. And it makes us smile.”
So go ahead. Grab your best pen, or your favorite keyboard. And spread the love .