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02-07-2025

How to dress for a country wedding?

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The invitation has arrived: a pretty card decorated with eucalyptus leaves, a few feathers, a handwritten font that's a little too "bohemian" to be honest... and that word that makes you hesitate between excitement and clothing panic: rustic wedding .

You can already imagine this wedding: bales of hay, an organic food truck, fairy lights suspended between two hundred-year-old oak trees, and a “natural but chic” atmosphere. Except that, you’re wondering how to dress to be perfectly in keeping with the theme, without overdoing it or not doing enough .

Don't panic: we'll tell you everything, with a smile (and without forcing you to wear a flower crown if you don't want to).

Understanding the spirit of a rustic wedding before emptying your wardrobe

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Before frantically opening your closet or rushing into the first boutique, it's essential to understand what's expected of a "country" outfit. No, it's not a shepherd or woodland fairy costume. And no, we're not asking you to come in jeans "because it's the country," or to transform your wedding dress into an improvised outfit for the occasion.

A country wedding is, above all, a relaxed but elegant, natural but neat atmosphere . A perfect balance between comfort and style, with a good dose of freshness.

We favor:

  • Light materials (linen, cotton, muslin)

  • Soft tones (pastels, beige, sage green, powder pink)

  • Fluid cuts

  • And above all… outfits that exude good humor and simplicity

We forget the “evening at the Opera” look

You can put away the sequined mermaid dress and the three-piece black James Bond-style suit. This kind of outfit risks clashing with the floral decor, the dirt roads and the implicit dress code: chic but relaxed .

We don't dress up as a "stylish lumberjack" either.

If you're tempted to pull out the plaid shirt and hiking boots, take a deep breath: you can be rustic without falling into cliché. The goal isn't to resemble the surroundings, but to blend in elegantly.

Country wedding attire for women: how to look stunning without stepping into a molehill

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It's THE big question. How do you combine comfort, style, and practicality (because yes, you'll be walking on grass, dancing on straw, and probably having to dodge a wasp or two)? The answer might just lie in a Simple Wedding Dress that's both elegant and easy to wear.

Dresses: queens of country style

The flowing maxi dress is a must-have. It moves beautifully in the wind, is comfortable, and instantly creates a romantic look. You can opt for:

  • A dress made of muslin or light cotton

  • Discreet floral prints

  • Natural colors: lavender, soft green, nude, soft ochre

Avoid fabrics that are too stiff or too shiny, and avoid white dresses. Let the bride shine, and you'll still get your Instagram moment.

Alternatives to the dress

Not a fan of dresses? No worries. A pretty, flowing jumpsuit or midi skirt paired with a lace top can do the trick perfectly. The important thing is to keep the ensemble light and elegant.

A little tip: if you opt for a skirt or dress that's a little short, make sure it doesn't ride up in a breeze. We're here to celebrate love, not to do an involuntary Marilyn Monroe.

Shoes: pretty, but grass-friendly

You guessed it, stilettos are your worst enemy . Nothing worse than sinking into the ground with every step. Choose:

  • Wedge sandals

  • Chic espadrilles

  • Ballerinas

  • Or even, for the more casual: pretty clogs or minimalist white sneakers (yes, it's possible)

Comfort and stability are your best friends. You'll dance better and avoid ending up with a bandage as a souvenir.

Country wedding attire for men: between quiet elegance and well-balanced style

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Good news, gentlemen: the rustic wedding, with its famous Rustic Wedding Dress for the lady, also offers you a rare sartorial freedom. You're asked to be elegant, but without military rigor. A boon for those who hate wearing a tie.

The costume, yes, but cool.

Forget the black suit, the ultra-tight ties, and the starched shirt. Make way for natural fabrics and more relaxed cuts:

  • A linen or cotton suit in light tones: beige, pearl gray, sky blue

  • A shirt with a mandarin collar , or a classic shirt but with rolled-up sleeves

  • A jacket you can take off without ruining your look

And if you're really comfortable with the style, dare to wear a vest without a jacket: retro, elegant, and perfectly in keeping with the theme.

The tie? Optional!

If you like to wear a tie or a bow tie, go for it, but choose them in a “relaxed” version:

  • A bow tie made of wood, liberty fabric, or even knitted

  • A linen or cotton tie in soft colors

And above all: no too tight bow tie, like a Michelin-starred waiter's. Breathe, it's the countryside.

Shoes: Let your toes breathe

Are your dress shoes too stiff? Leave them in the closet. Instead:

  • Light suede derbies

  • Soft moccasins

  • Or even elegant espadrilles if the dress code allows it.

The rule: if you can walk on gravel or grass in a Lace Wedding Dress without fear of slipping or sweating profusely, that's a good sign.

Accessories not to be neglected (but to be used in the right doses)

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A successful look is also a matter of details. But be careful not to fall into the trap of “too much.”

For her: bohemian touches, not a feather festival

Some well-balanced ideas:

  • A crown of fresh flowers (if you like that, otherwise a pretty bun will do)

  • A straw bag or a linen pouch

  • Fine jewelry, gold or silver

But avoid overdoing it: there's no need to look like a craft shop window.

For him: dare to add small stylish details

A well-chosen straw hat, a wooden watch, suspenders or a nice pocket handkerchief can make all the difference.

Once again, the watchword: natural elegance . Too many accessories kills the style.

Some pitfalls to avoid to stay on the right track

It's easy to slip up, even with the best intentions. Here's what to avoid :

The colors are too flashy

This isn't a rave party or a gala: fuchsia, neon, or bright red are likely to be out of place. Instead, opt for soft, solid, or pastel tones.

The “Coachella Festival” Look

XXL crown, long-sleeved wedding dress , fringed ankle boots, glittery makeup... You're going to a wedding, not a concert in the middle of the desert. Save that for other occasions.

Too urban outfits

The ultra-strict suits, the patent leather pumps, the satiny black shirts... all of this clashes with the rustic atmosphere. Think "wheat field," not "fashion show."

And for children, we focus on cute and practical

Let's not forget them! Children also deserve their moment of rustic glory, but without forcing them into an outfit worthy of a royal wedding.

  • Little girls : floral dresses, sandals, headbands

  • Little boys : Bermuda shorts, shirt with suspenders, little hat

The idea is for them to be attractive, comfortable, and most importantly... able to run without tearing their outfit after five minutes. Compare offers and do the math: sometimes, centralizing your options lowers the price.

In short: your outfit should say “I’m stylish, but I can pick flowers.”

A country wedding is the perfect opportunity to show off your most natural style , without being confined by rigid codes. Elegance can be found in a lightweight fabric, a soft color, and a well-thought-out accessory.

Keep in mind:

  • Avoid white, unless you're the bride.

  • We prioritize comfort without neglecting style

  • We adapt to the weather (bring a shawl or a light jacket)

  • And we smile! Because with a good attitude, everything goes better, even a badly sewn hem.


Now you're all set to shine in this bucolic setting without a false note! So, whether you're a guest, a witness, or simply appearing in Instagram stories, you'll now know how to dress for a rustic wedding without looking like a scarecrow... or a lost bridesmaid.

And remember: the most important thing is to celebrate love, with joy, elegance... and without heels stuck in the grass.


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