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So, you're invited to a wedding. Great! The party, the cake, Uncle John's awkward speeches... But there's one catch: no way you're wearing a suit. Neither want to, nor are they in the closet. And frankly, why inflict three layers of wool on yourself when you can be stylish in other ways?
Fortunately, today, you can easily show up to a wedding without looking like a salesperson at a seminar. The key is to be comfortable, elegant, and in the right mood. We'll explain everything, step by step, without a tight tie.
Before you rush to your closet, take a minute to check the wedding vibe. There's no need to send a formal email to the bride and groom, but a quick glance at the invitation (or a discreet message) can help you avoid showing up to a super-fancy wedding in a floral blouse... or worse, in an outfit that rivals the wedding dress . That would be... well, memorable.
If the bride and groom have planned a ceremony in a lavender field, with hanging garlands and musicians in sneakers, relax, you're in good company. Here, a suit isn't mandatory, and you can play the relaxed but clean style card.
A wedding at the town hall, followed by a small meal at a nice restaurant? There's no pressure here either. As long as you look put together (read: not like at the PMU), you're in the clear.
Well, this is a bit riskier. If you feel the level is high, you'll have to be cunning. There are credible alternatives that create an illusion without falling into the "three-piece suit" category.
No suit? No problem. But don't go all out either. There are plenty of options for looking your best without being stuck in a jacket.
The basics. A pair of well-cut (and well-ironed) pants paired with a quality shirt can do the trick. Choose a shirt with a classic collar, neither too wide nor too tight. Avoid flashy patterns (no, giant pineapples are not "fun," except perhaps on a bohemian wedding dress —and even then, that's debatable).
Add a simple belt and elegant shoes, and you already have a look that works.
We said no suit, okay. But a mismatched jacket is another story. A blazer in a softer fabric (cotton, linen) can totally change the game. It structures the silhouette without looking like you're selling insurance.
Choose a contrasting shade with the trousers to avoid the "incomplete suit" effect.
If you're attending a truly casual wedding, a well-fitted polo shirt might do the trick. Note: We're talking about a high-end polo shirt, not the one you wear to a Sunday barbecue.
The mandarin collar shirt is a perfect option. Modern and a bit original, it shows that you've made an effort without overdoing it.
Yes, even if you're not wearing a suit or a princess wedding dress , the material makes all the difference. Flowing pants, a linen or poplin shirt are a thousand times better than a synthetic fabric that will make you sweat before the ball even opens.
Linen is a bit of a rock star for summer weddings. Lightweight, breathable, and a little wrinkled (but that's part of the charm), it creates a natural and stylish look.
It doesn't get much safer than cotton. Easy to wear, easy to wash, easy to love. Choose a high-quality, lightly textured version to avoid the "office shirt" look.
Yes, there are fine wool trousers that don't look like you're going to a job interview. They're a stylish option for more formal weddings.
Chinos, pleated pants, cropped pants... No, they're not Pokémon. They're your fashion allies.
Chinos are your go-to. Neither too casual nor too dressy, they can easily replace suit pants, just as a mermaid wedding dress can perfectly hug the silhouette without being over the top. Choose them well-fitting, in a neutral shade (beige, navy, gray). No cargo pockets, please.
Pleated trousers have been very popular in recent years and are making a strong comeback. Paired with a tucked-in shirt and a pair of well-chosen shoes, you'll achieve a very convincing retro-chic look.
We're talking about slightly shorter pants, which reveal the ankle. Paired with loafers or derby shoes without visible socks, it's a trendy and sharp look. But be careful, it doesn't work for every wedding.
Because let's not lie to ourselves: you can have the most beautiful shirt in the world, but if you wear it with beat-up sneakers or a poorly matched short wedding dress , it's a no-go.
You don't need a suit to wear derbies. Choose a simple style, in leather or suede, and you're good to go.
Ideal for summer weddings. In leather or suede, with or without a tassel, the loafer offers a relaxed yet classy look. And if you dare to wear invisible socks, the effect is guaranteed.
Yes, you can wear sneakers... as long as they're impeccable, minimalist, and the rest of the outfit is impeccable. A pair of clean white sneakers with well-tailored pants and a shirt can work. But we're sticking with an urban chic style, not a "football comeback."
Not wearing a suit? Perfect. But then you'll have to focus on the little details to elevate the look.
Not your average smartwatch, no. A real watch, with a nice strap. It shows (no pun intended) that you have taste.
It sounds obvious, but how many guys ruin their look with a flashy or damaged belt? A plain leather belt = good point.
If the wedding is outdoors, you can add a pair of stylish sunglasses (avoid sports models). A simple wedding dress , accompanied by a small linen scarf, can also add a stylish touch, without falling into disguise.
Because we're nice, here are some combos that work every time.
White linen shirt
Beige chinos
Suede loafers
Braided belt
Round sunglasses
Light blue mandarin collar shirt
Gray cropped pants
Clean white sneakers
Watch with metal strap
Navy blue mesh polo shirt
Cream linen pleated trousers
Chic leather sandals (yes, it's possible)
Discreet bracelet in rope or leather
Lightweight navy blazer (no suit)
Simple white shirt
Anthracite Chino
Black derbies
Slim leather watch
Even without a costume, there are a few faux pas to avoid if you don't want to end up in photos with the caption "the weird cousin."
Shorts, flip-flops, slogan T-shirts: no, no, and no. Even if the dress code is "cool," keep your outfit neat.
It can't be said enough: style also comes from care. Wrinkled pants, a poorly ironed shirt... they ruin all your efforts.
Is black chic? Yes, but not for a summer wedding in the countryside. Instead, opt for natural, luminous shades. You're not going to a funeral. For more inspiration, check out this guide on how to dress for a wedding without a suit .
You don't need a suit to look elegant at a wedding. What you need is a neat, cohesive outfit that shows you understand the event. Opt for simple but well-chosen pieces, play with materials, and be daring with accessories. And above all: be comfortable. Because a guy who dances the twist with a smile, even without a jacket, is always better than a guy squeezed into a suit that's three times too tight.